Outside of the bedroom we have a great relationship, share two children and a happy functional home life

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Hi Sean My partner is much older than me and has lost his drive. To be really honest, sex was never what held us together and I feel we are somehow “mismatched” in the bedroom. We’re a great partnership, but have never had great sexual chemistry. Instead, he is encouraging me to pursue my sexual desires with other men. He claims not to feel jealous but “just wants me to be happy.” He says its up to me whether I tell him of my “extra-curricular” activities or not. I’m sure he’s never heard of a Wittol (a man who is aware and supportive of his wife’s infidelity), a term I have only just discovered today. But I wonder how many Wittols there are out there? and do you have any tips for me to make sure I’m not going to ruin my relationship by exploring this new possibility? The idea of having a kinky alter-ego excites me greatly, but I do not want to hurt my man’s feelings or emasculate him.

Sounds like you need to be quite careful here with the wittol concept. You may find that it’s better to dip your toe in the water and test your man’s reaction AND let him know all of this beforehand and afterwards. The idea in his head may be very different to real life. So what could you do to dip your toe in the water?

You could start with simply flirting with a guy the next time you are at a bar and see how your man reacts to it.

If he’s comfortable with you flirting with another man, then you can try going a little further the next time and again see how your man reacts to that.

He truly loves it when I’m in control

Please keep in mind, these are merely suggestions. Ultimately, you know your relationship with your man a lot better than I do.

I feel this is well put together walk through, I loved the cautionary comments which are sincere and valid. Plus the perspective from the female. ( quite a turn on in itself that for me – Male) More power to your elbow and any other parts of your anatomy that require such!

We have talked a lot about my sexual frustration, but he refuses to budge or see his doctor

My GF and I love everything but don’t involve other people, as we don’t believe there’s anything positive in this in a committed loving relationship

we do love outdoor and risky sex especially in Cars park near people like car parks, and recently after we both finished a massage in a same room.. She quickly present her ass to me which I quickly pumped full of cum in about 5 minutes before the massage therapist came back.. Then when we got to the car I continue pumping her ass with my cum making it feel amazing.. We felt that was pretty kinky ?

I’m just recently divorced and the guy I’m seeing now is so open to anything I want to try and he even suggest things as well. He even loves it because I’m a very dominant female. Sean you’ve given me a lot of ideas on how to blow your mans mind with a blow job but one thing after reading all your books and getting your news letters. My man will tell you that if you ever have a girl give you a blow job without teeth is the most mind blowing way to get a blowjob. Believe me when I say that I don’t worry bc I know what he really likes. So just to offer the info research men getting blowjobs by women that wear dentures. Every women should experience this simply due to the feeling of a dick in your mouth without teeth you actually get to feel what it really feels like. You feel every pulse vein ripple and the room in your mouth to truly satisfy him is jusr as mind blowing for you. I can honestly say I hated giving blowjobs until I did it with my dentures out. I enjoy it just as much as he does. The feel of his dick in my mouth is so erotic to me and turns me on more than him going down on me. Call me crazy but all men deserve and need to have a low job without teeth.